I don't much care about the looks. I care about ride, performance, and durability. The 22s probably have worse ride and durability than the smaller wheels, but it all depends on what the car was engineered for.
When I ordered my First Edition I went with the 20” wheels for the exact same reason. However the car I test drive had the 22” carbon fibre insert wheels and it not only looked stunning, but the air suspension did an amazing job (I drove it on a pretty rough road surface at one point). So I changed my order to the 22s. I think without the air suspension it might have been a different story but it really was comfortable with it. They offer wheel insurance so I’ll probably take that to try and reduce parking anxiety!